DAI'S JOURNAL
Your body doesn't need to follow a script
Less comparison, more curiosity about your own experience.
Images, stories and expectations can create the feeling that there is one right way to experience intimacy. Yet every person brings their own story to a relationship.
What feels right for you?
Recognising your preferences takes time. You might begin by noticing what feels comfortable, what sparks curiosity and what does not fit your current circumstances. You do not need a final answer.
An experience is not a performance.
Replacing comparison with curiosity leaves room to notice what is happening. How do you feel? Is there something you want to ask? Would you prefer to leave something for another occasion?
These questions are not a task to complete. They are possibilities for finding words and recognising your own pace.
Room for conversation.
A conversation about sexuality can welcome uncertainties and questions without turning your experience into a list of goals. Explore Dai’s approach and see whether this space feels right for you.
